Unfuck tomorrow morning

unfuckyourhabitat:

  • Wash the dishes in your sink
  • Get your outfit for tomorrow together, including accessories
  • Set up coffee/tea/breakfast
  • Make your lunch
  • Put your keys somewhere obvious
  • Wash your face and brush your teeth
  • Charge your electronics
  • Pour a little cleaner in the toilet bowl (if you don’t have pets or children or sleepwalking adults)
  • Set your alarm
  • Go to bed at a reasonable hour

(via teafortash)

mrsjonie:

10 Steps to Positive Body Image: One list cannot automatically tell you how to turn negative body thoughts into positive body image, but it can introduce you to healthier ways of looking at yourself and your body.  The more you practice these new thought patterns, the better you will feel about who you are and the body you naturally have.

Appreciate all that your body can do.  Every day your body carries you closer to your dreams.  Celebrate all of the amazing things your body does for you—running, dancing, breathing, laughing, dreaming, etc.
Keep a top-ten list of things you like about yourself—things that aren’t related to how much you weigh or what you look like.  Read your list often.  Add to it as you become aware of more things to like about yourself.
Remind yourself that “true beauty” is not simply skin deep.  When you feel good about yourself and who you are, you carry yourself with a sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and openness that makes you beautiful regardless of whether you physically look like a supermodel.  Beauty is a state of mind, not a state of your body.
Look at yourself as a whole person. When you see yourself in a mirror or in your mind, choose not to focus on specific body parts.  See yourself as you want others to see you–as a whole person.
Surround yourself with positive people. It is easier to feel good about yourself and your body when you are around others who are supportive and who recognize the importance of liking yourself just as you naturally are.
Shut down those voices in your head that tell you your body is not “right” or that you are a “bad” person.  You can overpower those negative thoughts with positive ones.  The next time you start to tear yourself down, build yourself back up with a few quick affirmations that work for you. 
Wear clothes that are comfortable and that make you feel good about your body.  Work with your body, not against it.
Become a critical viewer of social and media messages. Pay attention to images, slogans, or attitudes that make you feel bad about yourself or your body.  Protest these messages:  write a letter to the advertiser or talk back to the image or message
Do something nice for yourself—something that lets your body know you appreciate it.  Take a bubble bath, make time for a nap, find a peaceful place outside to relax.
Use the time and energy that you might have spent worrying about food, calories, and your weight to do something to help others.  Sometimes reaching out to other people can help you feel better about yourself and can make a positive change in our world.
cake-and-milk:

I have been having a helluva time trying to find appropriate middle school teacher clothes, but I think I’m getting the hang of it…

This outfit is just too cute ( * A * )
knight-of-tuxedo:

Accurate

icyarguments:

And now a message to our boys: You matter. Just because you’re not a bulging beefcake doesn’t mean girls aren’t going to like you, Just because you’re not a thin as a rod doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. Just because your looks doesn’t meet someone’s preference doesn’t mean you’re undateable. If you want to change your appearance you have to accept it first. You’re not weak, you’re not disposable, and you do not deserve to die.

(via dontwishuponastar)

chessieness:

“maybe if i drink another coffee, i will feel better”

“maybe if i buy myself a new sweater, i will feel better”

“maybe if i get so drunk i can’t see, i will feel better”

“maybe if i sleep for fourteen hours, i will feel better”

Yes but with lots of chocolate

waytoomuchinformation:

Destroy Inc is pretty swell at making me look like a hot mermaid. 
waytoomuchinformation:

Destroy Inc is pretty swell at making me look like a hot mermaid. 

unskinny:

Every terrible thing that has been said about my body or the body of another fat person has stuck with me through out the years whether I wanted them to or not,  And those things will always come back to me when I am at my most vulnerable.

My fatness is more than just how I look.  It’s shaped my personality.  I was made so hyper aware of my body that even now it’s impossible to do anything without being forced to remember what my body looks like and what people may or may not think about it.  

bisexualgothmom:

 patricia-von-black

Can we all just sit here for a moment and appreciate how fucking gorgeous Maila Nurmi was even as she aged? 


omg! she’s finnish!!bisexualgothmom:

 patricia-von-black

Can we all just sit here for a moment and appreciate how fucking gorgeous Maila Nurmi was even as she aged? 


omg! she’s finnish!!